Dating christian guys tips
They met, married, and had children with stellar men of God that honestly made me step back and ask, “How were these guys still single!? There is no background check verifying all members of Site A are top-quality men (or women for that matter). Tell people where you are going and what your plans are.
I would consider myself a decent Christian woman who loves the Lord, so surely there could be decent Christian men on there as well, but not all of them are. Give them whatever information you have just in case.
Ask them to watch your back, encourage you hold firm to your convictions, and keep you accountable. And strength is what Christian singles need when navigating the tumultuous waters of potential romance.
Seek dating advice from a mature Christian you respect.
For those considering online dating, I have this advice to help curb some of the risk. Do not (I repeat: do not) go into this in some Jonah-like attempt to wiggle your way out of where God has you right now. The church had a significant singles ministry and many were involved in online dating.
I’ve been set up with guys—even ones who know I’m a Christian—who expect me to go along with their lifestyle choices: sex, drugs, excessive drinking, and the rest.
Other times, guys find out I’m a Christian and automatically assume I’m uptight and judgmental.
Just because a woman calls herself a Christian doesn’t mean her beliefs or lifestyle choices are the same as mine.”Define your standards in advance. Some Christian singles are reluctant to voice their convictions for fear of being labeled “old-fashioned” or “narrow-minded.” But it’s best to be up-front about what is and is not acceptable to you.
The time to think through any potentially perilous situation is before it happens. If holding to your values is important to you, take time to identify them before you start dating. Many awkward and compromising situations can be avoided by simply being honest with your date about your standards.This brings us to the biggest con of online anything: The bad guys lie.