Dating boyfriend kids
If you really care about your boyfriend and want things to work out, understand his situation.
If you had children with another man, you would want that man in your children’s lives just as much as your boyfriend wants to be in his kids’ lives.
He will have to be in contact with his ex from time to time. It is not easy to begin a new relationship with kids.
In an article published in the Journal of Divorce and Remarriage entitled, “Factors That Influence Separated and Divorced Parents' Sharing of Personal Information with Dating Partners," interviews of divorced fathers revealed that they were hesitant to share information with their new partners.
If there is something that bothers you about his relationship with his ex, talk about it.
It may be that he does not even notice that it is bothering you.
In a study found in the Journal of Divorce and Remarriage entitled, “Marrying a Man with ‘Baggage’: Implications for Second Wives," women who entered into a relationship where the man still had connections with his ex were found to be less happy.
Just as there are great guys who make shitty boyfriends…and great boyfriends who turn into shitty husbands, there are also great boyfriends who DON’T WANT TO BE great husbands.
It is not uncommon for a person to feel love for his ex, according to Moushumi Ghose in the article entitled, “My Boyfriend is Still in Love with His Ex.” However, for some reason their relationship did not work out and he does not want to be with her anymore. This is the most important aspect of your relationship.