Grip his butt hard while in missionary, scratch his chest and the sides of his torso while in girl-on-top, or yank his head toward you to give him a passionate, damn-straight kind of kiss.
If those moves elicit an excited response, firmly spank his butt, lightly bite his shoulder, or tug his hair in the act, you devilish thing.
"Guys dig when women are unbridled and uninhibited, push their own boundaries, break the rules, and ask for what they want," says Barbara Keesling, Ph D, author of .
Go for doggie-style so you can both see the action or girl-on-top so you can watch exactly how you move.
And definitely get shots exchanging oral sex so you can see the orgasmic effect you have on each other.
"Talking dirty heightens the whole experience, keeps you both present, and turns you on even more," says Royalle.
"Plus, men actually like being told what to do in bed because it helps them get it right."First tell him how freakin' good he feels. Try no-fail lines like "You feel so/You make me [adjective]"; "I love it when you [verb] my [body part].") Then you're set to show him the way to send you soaring, with something like, " Body confidence and carnal curiosity are key traits of a sex goddess, and both are on full display when you make a sex tape.
When playing the innocent card, say it's your first time, and ask him what you should do.